The Jesus Guy
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 07/29/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
Two weeks after my arrival here at our parish in June of last year, I got a call to go and anoint a sick person in our neighborhood to which I responded promptly. However, when I reached the apartment indicated on the address, I got confused how to locate the exact room number. Fortunately, I found a gentleman in the parking lot, and I asked him to help me locate the room number. After looking at the number he said: “Oh, you are looking for the Jesus Guy”. What an identity to be described by – “The Jesus Guy!”
ContinueDo not gossip: It is unChristian.
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 07/22/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
A few days ago, after Mass, I was chatting with Dave Fesko, the sacristan. He brought about the topic of gossip and how he hated it. I cannot remember how that conversation came about but it inspired this short article. This is because gossip is usually attractive but very toxic and destructive to a community especially when they target the personality of someone or people. Besides, they also break the cardinal virtue of charity. Unfortunately, despite this, gossip happens almost everywhere even in the Church. Therefore, it is a vice which should never be entertained especially in the Church. That is why I always say that if you are tempted to say something bad about somebody, just shut up!
In reflecting further on this topic of gossip, the following story from Pope Francis about Socrates as to why we should not gossip came to my mind. I would like to share this with you. Hope you will find it useful.
ContinueI Cannot Thank God Enough, Here is Why
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 07/15/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
On July 20th, 1991, something very significant happened in my life – I was ordained a Catholic priest in my home parish in Uganda! In a few days’ time therefore, I will be celebrating the 32nd Anniversary of my priesthood. As I reflected on this milestone in my life, I realized that it was not by accident that I am celebrating this particular anniversary among you as your new pastor, or to some as your son and to others as your brother and friend. I am so grateful to God for each of you, whichever way you look at it.
ContinueA Brief Update on the Perpetual Adoration Chapel
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 07/08/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
I felt the need to give a brief update on our perpetual adoration chapel project after receiving several anxious queries as to what is going on since Fr. Charlie moved from the parish. I think you deserve to know after the very remarkable contribution and support you have extended towards this project. As you all know, Fr. Charlie had desired to complete this project before leaving our parish, but I told him that I will make sure that it is completed as quickly as possible since he has done a great deal of the work. Besides, I also firmly believe in this project because personally, the Eucharist and Adoration have always meant so much to me from my childhood to my priesthood and as I pointed out in last week’s article, focus on the Eucharist will also be one of the pillars of my service here among you as your pastor.
ContinueA New Phase Begins: A Privilege to Love You More as your Shepherd
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 07/01/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
Today, July 1, 2023, I offcially begin my ministry among you as your Pastor. I do so with profound gratitude to God for giving me the opportunity to serve you in this phase of my priestly life. I am honored. I expressed the same sentiment in the first article I wrote a few weeks ago and I repeat it yet again because gratitude remains my primary focus and love will be my instrument to express it. I am deeply grateful to all the pastors who preceded me most especially Fr. Charlie our immediate former pastor, for preparing me in various ways, knowingly or unknowing for this moment. I am also grateful to the Servants of the Plan of God for their years of great service to our parish and school. May they all be blessed as they begin another phase in their pastoral and evangelization mission wherever the Lord has now assigned them. I thank the staff of both the parish and of our wonderful school for serving with me diligently in this community. Finally, I thank you my dear parishioners, for showing me tremendous love this past year as I served as your associate pastor. Many of you have expressed lots of excitement and support when I was named as your pastor three months ago. That meant a lot to me and will continue to mean a lot to me for years to come.
ContinueThe Significance of Fatherhood in the Lives of our Children
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 06/24/2023 | Weekly ReflectionFriends,
This past week we celebrated Fathers’ Day during which we honored and prayed for our fathers both biological and spiritual. Thank you for your prayers. Although I had a strong urge to focus my homily on fatherhood, the liturgical impulse to preach on the readings of the day prevailed. In this short article, therefore, allow me to brie$y share some of my thoughts on the significance of fatherhood in the lives of our children. I deem this to be very important because our fathers significantly shape how we handle responsibilities and challenges and view life in general in our adult lives. The way our fathers treat our mothers for instance, will determine how the boys will treat women in general and their wives in particular, as adults.
ContinueGod Writes Straight with Crooked Lines
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 06/17/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
What a great blessing it is for me to be called to serve you here at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel as your pastor at this point in my priestly life. I am convinced that this is not by coincidence, it is by providence. In a month’s time, I will be celebrating my 32nd year of priestly ordination. During these past years, I have no doubt that the Lord has been at work, building, molding, and motivating me just for this moment. While He has done amazing things for me, He has also allowed me to face various challenges over the years in order to purify and strengthen me so that with His help, I may come out a stronger person to serve you. I will share some of these in future articles.
ContinueAging: A Curse and a Blessing
by Fr. Robert Aliunzi | 06/10/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
So much serious stuff has been going on around us this past couple of months that I would like to lighten the atmosphere a bit with this light article which I write in the place of Fr. Charlie. As I do so, let us continue to pray that Fr. Charlie enjoys his well-deserved rest as he prepares to move onto his new assignment. Let us also welcome Fr. Bitrus Maigamo who will be serving us in this month of June and of course, keep in your prayers Fr. Gabriel Terrill who will join us in July as our Parochial Vicar.
This article was inspired by my recent experience and conversations about aging while on my vacation in Uganda. Many people I encountered there kept on remarking that I look younger than my age and that I don’t seem to age. While I kind of enjoyed those compliments, in reality I feel very different now than ever before and I don’t like it. I recall that when I was young, I looked forward to growing old but no one ever warned me about the other frustrations that come with age such as aching bones, frequent doctors’ appointments, impatience, whining about the present state of affairs, worrying about retirement and everything else. I noticed this even more clearly when I found myself among my fellow “old men” in my village reminiscing about the past good old days and condemning the children of these day.
ContinueSCRIP/ Food for Thought Program
by Fr. Charlie | 06/03/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
It has been more than 20 years that merchant cards have been sold at OLMC to help fund school expenses. This program, administered by the Home and School Association, has benefitted many teachers and their students over the years. School volunteers standing in their spot selling cards after the Sunday Masses is a sight we are all accustomed to seeing.
Much has changed since the program was "first initiated—especially with the way that so much is done online. Today, schools in our diocese that still have SCRIP programs do all of their transactions online. These online sites allow you to purchase the cards and credit our school account, all from the comfort of your home.
ContinueFarewell
by Fr. Charlie Goraieb | 05/21/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
Serving as your pastor these last two years have been a gift from the Lord at this late stage in my priestly ministry. As many of you know, OLMC was my home parish for 3 years before entering the seminary. Fr. (Msgr.) McCready, the pastor, was a wise and kind mentor, helping me to grasp a good understanding of the practicalities of the priesthood. He gave me a room in the rectory during vacations and even saw to it that I had a few extra dollars in my pocket.
There were, however a few tense moments when I thought my vocation might be in danger. Like the time I borrowed Fr. McCready’s prized graphite-shaft golf driver without asking permission, only to see the clubhead fly off the shaft on the driving range. That easily could have been the end of my seminary days, but eventually cooler heads prevailed (that I got the club repaired quickly certainly didn’t hurt matters).
ContinueHappy Mother's Day
by Fr Charlie Goraieb | 05/14/2023 | Weekly ReflectionFriends,
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers and grandmothers of our parish community. Like many, on this day I reflect on my own mother and the impact she had on me. I always knew I was loved very much by her. She taught me many things: how to speak (albeit Spanish, not English); about God’s love for me and everyone; how to pray; to love my brother and sister; to obey the teachers at school and to apply myself; to be kind to others; to ask forgiveness for wrongdoings; and the joy of warm, homemade food awaiting our return from school. As we grow older and more independent, the importance of our mother’s love begins to wane. That is one reason why this day in which we honor our mothers is so important. The unconditional love of God is reflected in both of our parents, but our mothers who make it concrete and transformational.
ContinueResources for Overcoming the Use of Pornography
by Fr Charlie Goraieb | 05/07/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
Dennis Prager, a conservative author and talk-radio host has drawn a lot of attention to himself recently because of his controversial and very problematic views on pornography. At a recent round-table discussion hosted by Jordan Peterson, a clinical psychologist and author, Prager said “men want variety, so pornography is not so awful so long as it is used as a substitute for adultery.”
Prager, who is in many ways an insightful and moral man, has badly understood the way that the use of pornography harms the user and those around him. If the user is married, single a priest or a nun, he or she is doing violence to the gift of noble sexual desire God has implanted in our hearts. While God’s plan for married love is that spouses would give themselves away completely to each other in selfless love in service to the other. Porn, on the other hand works in the opposite direction, reducing other people to objects of sexual gratification. No, pornography is not a harmless diversion—it is the toxic venom that is destroying the souls of millions of young men and women and causing deep wounds in countless marriages.
ContinueNavigating a Child's Same Sex Attraction
by Fr. Charlie Goraieb | 04/30/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
Many of you are familiar with the proverbial “frog in the hot water”. The way the story goes is that if a frog, a cold-blooded amphibian, is placed in a large pot of cold water on top of a stove, it will relax and enjoy the water. If the heat is slowly turned up, the frog will continually adjust to the gradual rising of the temperature until eventually he boils to death.
This story is often used as a parable depicting what happens when we allow sin or error to penetrate our lives. Initially, we may only embrace it to only a limited degree, but unless checked, over time its hold on us will increase to a point that is fatal.
ContinueAttending Mass Weekly
by Fr. Charlie Goraieb | 04/23/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
I begin with a word of gratitude and happiness over our Parish Picnic last Saturday. It was wonderful to see so many people enjoying themselves in a variety of activities (or none) and a very real sense of shared community among those present. For many, the highlight of the day was the Blessing of Chapel ground by Bishop Olmsted. There are so many who served in preparation of the Picnic and on the day itself. To all of you, I say “thank you.”
ContinueParish Picnic
by Fr Charlie Goraieb | 04/16/2023 | Weekly ReflectionDear Friends,
I begin by expressing my gratitude to all of you who helped make Saturday’s Parish Picnic a great day. I especially thank Ashley Hall, Jamon Reval, Knights of Columbus, School Dad’s Club, St Therese Group, Boy Scouts, Tim States, Coach Baker, Mrs. Knox, OLMC Jr High students and all who gave their time and talent to facilitate a joyful community day for the parish.
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