Holy Family

by Joseph Malzone  |  12/27/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

Merry Christmas! Today, on this, the fourth day of the Octave of Christmas, Holy Church celebrates the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. The family: child, mother, and father, forms the basic unit of the church and is the root through which the tree of life and salvation grows, as evidenced by the Holy Family.

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Mary, Mother of God, our Mother!

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  12/26/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Happy New Year, Dear Friends,

We have just joyfully celebrated the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, and I hope you all had a blessed and peaceful time with your families.

In a few days’ time, as we usher in the New Year 2026, our attention now turns to the Blessed Virgin Mary. On January 1st, we celebrate the Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God. This is a profoundly significant celebration as we begin this new year under her special title.

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I Believe in One God

by Joseph Malzone  |  12/20/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

This year, holy Church celebrates the 1,700th anniversary of the First Council of Nicaea, held from May to August in the year 325 in the modern-day city of İznik, Turkey. One of the main topics of discussion at the council was who Jesus is metaphysically, especially in relation to God the Father.

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The Christmas that almost broke me: A mother's sad story

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  12/19/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear Friends,

As we conclude the Advent season and prepare to celebrate the joyous birth of our Lord in a few days’ time, I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. However, even as we enter this festive season, some of our dear ones will not be sharing that joy for various reasons. One of the reasons for some will be loneliness. This reality was brought home to me in a way that moved me to tears, through the sad story of a mother whom I came across online. I suspect some of you can relate to this story.

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The Lord is Near

by Joseph Malzone  |  12/13/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

“Rejoice in the Lord always, again I say, rejoice. Indeed, the Lord is near.”

Today, the Church celebrates Gaudete Sunday, the Third Sunday of Advent. The name of this Sunday comes from the first word of the above Entrance Antiphon, sung at the start of the Mass today, which in Latin is Gaudete.

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Rejoice in the Lord Always

by Fr. Paul Celestine Lokunume  |  12/12/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear Friends,

The tone of our celebration for the 3rd Sunday of Advent, also known as Gaudete, is one of rejoicing. The Entrance Antiphon resounds: "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice. Indeed, the Lord is near." The first reading this Sunday presents the Prophet exalting the people to rejoice and to be glad for their God is coming to them. On that day, “The eyes of the blind shall be opened, the ears of the deaf unsealed, then the lame shall leap like a deer and the tongues of the dumb sing for joy.”

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Some Customs of Advent

by Joseph Malzone (Adapted from Michael P. Foley)  |  12/06/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

The nativity scene or crèche arose out of ancient piety and the medieval theater. Christians were honoring the cave in Bethlehem where Jesus Christ is believed to have been born even before St. Helen built the Basilica of the Nativity over it around A.D. 330. Medieval mystery plays later reenacted the Nativity, but when they got out of hand, Pope Honorius suppressed them.

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The Typical Day of a Priest: Switching Gears by Grace

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  12/05/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear Friends,

Recently, a close friend of mine posed a highly insightful question to me. I had just described my ministry day, which began with the profound solemnity of hearing confessions, immediately followed by the grief and hope of a funeral Mass, transitioned into the joyful celebration of a wedding Mass, and concluded with the celebratory atmosphere of a school gala.

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Not Yet Christmas

by Joseph Malzone  |  11/29/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

Today, the Church celebrates the First Sunday of Advent. Notice that Christmas is not included in that title, nor is it for the remainder of the liturgical season of Advent, even though much of the world around us is already acting like Christmas is here. I am in Rome right now, and even here, many places are decorated for Christmas. As Catholic Christians, though, we should know that Advent comes first, and cannot be forgotten as an important and necessary prelude to the joy of the Christmas season, which lasts not one day but a little over two weeks until the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord.

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Advent: Awaiting the Coming of the Prince of Peace

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  11/28/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear Friends,

The Advent season is once again with us. Yet this year again, its commencement is shadowed by the deep anxieties of a world still struggling for peace in many countries. As we light the first candles—symbols of Hope—it is impossible to ignore the severe conflicts tearing at the global fabric, from the long-standing wars in Ukraine and between Israel and Hamas, to the devastating persecution faced by Christians in places like Nigeria, Sudan, and across the Middle East.

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Kingship

by Joseph Malzone  |  11/22/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

Today I am in Paris, having just visited the Cathedral of Saint-Denis just north of Paris. In that Cathedral is located the French Royal Necropolis. Surrounded by over 140 tombs of French Nobility, 40 of which are Kings, including King St. Louis IX, with their grand but sober funerary monuments, the immense temporal power that was wielded by those now laid to rest is evident, but even in death they seem to recognize that their power was finite and ultimately subservient to that of Christ’s, as on many monuments is incorporated effigies in prayerful posture often on their knees in the direction of an altar.

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Introducing the Disciple Maker Index (DMI)

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  11/21/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear Friends,

Our parish, Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, is on a continuous journey to know, to love, and to serve Christ in our community, so that we get everyone who walks through our doors to heaven. In order to achieve this, together we must embrace Christ’s vision for our missionary discipleship so that our parish can thrive and be a place for others to grow together in faith.

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Hope in Death

by Joseph Malzone (Adapted from Pope Leo XIV)  |  11/15/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

Continuing the church’s practice of contemplating death and praying for the dead, especially in November, I now invite us to contemplate how hope is present, even in death, with our Holy Father from his homily given on All Souls’ Day.

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Give Thanks to the Lord, Who's Love is Eternal

by Fr. Paul Celestine Lokunume  |  11/14/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ through Mary,

Among St. Vincent de Paul's famous statements, I picked the following:

  1. "Go to the poor: you will find God,"
  2. "The most powerful weapon to conquer the devil is humility,"
  3. "We must love our neighbor as being made in the image of God."
  4. "Humility is nothing but truth, and pride is nothing but lying". And,
  5. "It is not enough to give bread. Love must be your calling."
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Catholic Funerals

by Joseph Malzone  |  11/08/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

As Catholics, it’s crucial that we understand not only the Catholic Church’s practices but also the reasons behind them, particularly in our funeral rites. Like all liturgical rites, funerals serve a specific purpose within the life of the Church. Catholic funeral rites consist of three liturgies, each with a distinct role in ministering to the bereaved and commemorating the deceased.

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An Urgent Call to Love: Support the Sacred Heart Sisters

by Fr. Robert Aliunzi  |  11/07/2025  |  Weekly Reflection

Dear friends,

This weekend, we at Our Lady of Mount Carmel are blessed to welcome the Sisters of the Sacred Heart of Jesus (SHS), who are here to share their powerful story of faith, service, and urgent need. We have a profound opportunity to embody the love of Christ by generously supporting these courageous Missionary Sisters.

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Protecting the Eucharist

by Joseph Malzone  |  11/01/2025  |  Liturgy and Worship Reflections

The Eucharist is truly a gift to us. In fact, it’s a continuation of Christ’s total gift of self that began with his incarnation, came to its culmination on the cross where he died for us, and continues to be present to us under the appearance of simple bread and wine. Because the Eucharist is such a precious gift to us, it must be treated with respect.

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